The grass is greener on the other side.
But is it really always that way? The grass might appear greener, but it might have its own shades of black, grey, or other colours you might not have foreseen. You often see that which you desire rather than what the actual ground reality is. An optical illusion, should I say? Mental illusion? Take your pick. It’s just like those mirages, which you see in cartoons, where the oases are always filled with beautiful, semi-clad women and delicious food and drink, and which always disappear when the character approaches them.
I have always tried to put myself in someone else’s shoes (not literally, of course :P), and imagined life in their own terms. Never has it been to my liking. Obviously, I do admire a few of my friends’ qualities, the amount of freedom they get, or just their devilishly handsome looks :P. But there are many negative points which I would have never liked in my own life. There is always something negative along with the positive. Justifies the old sayings and theories of the balance in nature. 😉 It also makes you look at life in a different way, be it good or bad. So enjoy life while you’re still in it. Cheerio!
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I’ve also often wondered how a teacher still loves to teach inspite of the deteriorating condition of the teaching staff in our country. Barring some incompetent teachers, students should not have any complaints about the quality of teaching. However, that is not what is observed in most of the schools or colleges I have been in. This has been synonymous with the advent of coaching classes, sounding the death knell for most of these government-paid, government-fed teachers. Coaching classes pay more, and get more out of their teachers, causing the scales of the students’ barometer of preference to tip the wrong way.
This makes the college professors feel small, and maligned. Which is very much true, considering the rowdy behaviour these teachers have to face. Sometimes, I do feel frustrated with some of my “supposed” teachers. But I do not blame them for whatever is going on now.
Indeed, teaching IS a noble profession in this brave, new world.